Jesse Eden Metcalfe (born December 9, 1978) is an American actor, best known for his role on Desperate Housewives as John Rowland. After successfully auditioning for the NBC soap opera Passions, he played Miguel Lopez-Fitzgerald, one of five siblings, from the show’s debut in July 1999 to July 2004, and November 2004 to January 2005. They are now no longer dating since she has moved on. in October 2004 Metcalfe returned to television as the teenage gardener John Rowland on the popular ABC TV drama Desperate Housewives, where his character had a secret relationship with housewife Gabrielle Solis played by Eva Longoria. His second occurred when he was punk’d by Ashton Kutcher’s crew members during the Spider-Man 3 audition. Metcalfe also appeared in the 3 Doors Down “Let Me Go” video.